fear forever....

We constantly live in fear.

Recaping a life of a normal individual...(mine actually)

Sk000lll..
During school life, we are worried that we shouldnt antagonize our principal or teachers,
cos we want to end up in some good college and we might need their help to do so.
Worser, antagonizing them might lead to dire consequences like Suspension which would be a bad thing to have while applying for colleges.

In college..
we dont want to get on the bad side of any Profs or the college Admin team, cos again
we cant afford a black mark. And we need their recos for higher education/jobs.

In Grad college..
Surprise Surprise.. fear remains..
there is again a much wanted need for those valuable recos to apply for jobs or phds..

and ... in jobs..
we dont want to get fired the first few years cos we are trying to lay a strong base for a proper career.

as time goes on..
we hav a family and again.. though we reach a respectable position we still dont want to get on anyones bad side cos we hav our family to think about.


and life goes on like this....
most of us live in constant worry and fear ....

imagine a life without fear.. well.. we probably wudnt cross stage 1 - high school.
one mite just drop out of it.. bcos he didnt lik his teachers attitude..

and this possibility of dropping out and quitting carries on until the last stage - a professional and a family man..

this usually ends up in ppl getting fired all the time.. and changing jobs..
or splitting up over and over again with ones spouses.

so is fear a good thing...????????

one might wonder. I for one dont think its such a good thing. But it has helped me control those animal instincts i get to go "hulk" and rip the head off the person who picked on me.. or acted high and mighty .. etc.... etc...